HOW EMPTY OF ME TO BE FULL OF YOU!

"How empty of me to be full of you"  or so the saying goes.   I couldn't agree more.   Especially when it comes to the ladies.   It's a shame that after years of struggling for equal human rights some ladies still choose to live in the early 1900's.    Yes, I said it and I will say it again....CHOOSE!

I really don't understand how some ladies out there actually let someone take away thier God given right to choose, to live, to enjoy life and to  have a mind of their own.    What could possibly be going through their minds?   What do they see in themselves that makes them settle for less than what they deserve?  Ok, so your man/boyfriend gets to sleep in late or hangout with his buddies while you are out there working hard to pay the rent.  I know..it's not fair but then again you choose this.   WHAT A JOKE!   If you ever get the feeling that people are talking behind your back let me assure you....they probably are!   Come on ladies...why are you cheating yourselves like that?   I was raised by a single parent (My Mom)   Not once did she let anyone control her or did she ever put a man first and us last.    It's crazy how some women are so straved for affection that they are willing to sacrifice their own relationship with their children over a man.    A man will always come and go but your kids are a part of your life forever...if they find it in thier hearts to forgive you that is. 

Ok, so you might say, "I'm only staying with him because of my kids"  Yeah...sure.  I'm sure you are sitting a good example for your kids.   Go ahead and teach them that it's ok for someone to control thier lives,minds,belives,body, etc.   Good parenting.   Come on ladies...I really do believe that there is nothing we guys can do that you can't do better.    You have fought for this for many years.  It's time to step up to the plate and demand what's rightfully yours.    Demand to be treated equeally, to be heard, to be able to choose your own friends, to be able to live your own life!   To be treated like a  human-being!

This is my opinion...what's yours?   Thank you for reading my blog.   Especially to my subscribed readers...."Thank You"    I really do appreciat it.    

                                                           John J. Cuellar

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